tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31497830.post2516648302732238736..comments2023-10-31T04:11:07.907-05:00Comments on Parental Alienation: Parental Alienation...what do you think when you hear that term?Alienated momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16439933704255717566noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31497830.post-7041945507876000332011-07-21T23:07:34.515-05:002011-07-21T23:07:34.515-05:00The reason it dosent change, is they dont want it ...The reason it dosent change, is they dont want it changed. Lets change it, we can... <br /><br />People can change this, we can show how upset we are with the system...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31497830.post-40264901151025754562011-07-21T23:05:17.109-05:002011-07-21T23:05:17.109-05:00We all love our children, right?? So, lets do som...We all love our children, right?? So, lets do something about this corruption in the court room and have a nation wide march, the the famous million man march for men of color??Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31497830.post-50497149155350365762011-07-21T23:03:05.323-05:002011-07-21T23:03:05.323-05:00I have been a victim in this arena now for about 8...I have been a victim in this arena now for about 8 years. What I dont understand is if it is so abundent across the country...Like I know it is....The why the HELL hasnt anyone started a march or a country wide petition to try to end it???Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31497830.post-7167130891989836132010-10-05T08:15:02.331-05:002010-10-05T08:15:02.331-05:00I have three severe alienated step children. My hu...I have three severe alienated step children. My husband actually has four children but the oldest is an adult and I never met her. She had stopped speaking to her dad when he and his ex split. The other children at first came and everything was fine. It wasn't until mom moved them 20 minutes away with only a days notice that the alienation became severe. My husband took her to court for contempt, and the children had been made to keep a secret from their dad that they were moving. They started lying about being sick so they would not have to come and visit. the list goes on. My daughter loved his girls and now she will never know why she no longer gets to see them.<br /><br />Keep up the fight. No parent should ever have to go through this.<br /><br /><br /><br />http://myexperiencewithpas.weebly.com/index.htmlKimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17096934182712650243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31497830.post-26696193784954397382010-09-27T14:26:47.439-05:002010-09-27T14:26:47.439-05:00My children are being taught to hate me because, I...My children are being taught to hate me because, I hold an Evangelist license.I was taken to court and a judge took my children off of nora tenus testimony. I wanted to teach my children Jesus Christ and I was denied that right. I have a Nephew Corey McMahan that got on face book and posted some things about how my children hated me because of the church thing. If anyone is interested please notify him and ask him why he did this and why he is teaching my children to hate their Father, because he loves Jesus Christ.williamcfishersr@gmail.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02111179792662668438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31497830.post-86584476456565431212010-09-26T21:53:31.975-05:002010-09-26T21:53:31.975-05:00I am the mother of two mildly alienated boys, alth...I am the mother of two mildly alienated boys, although my ex's is unintentionally doing it. <br /><br />I am the stepmother of two children who are so severely alienated they too will have the borderline personality disorder as their mother. They cannot function normally in the world because the SEVERE abuse and alienation they have been subjected to. The situation is so bad, had I known how psychologically unstable my husbands ex was, We never would have married. Not only have my husband and I had to endure the countless false accusations, contempt court issues, and the many other illegal activites without punishment, I have a daughter who will never be able to get to know two her siblings, because they are taught to hate her too. <br /><br />Keep fighting. I have lost my fight ability.Candiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10973023453573517562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31497830.post-43598448645095627842010-09-26T18:51:42.894-05:002010-09-26T18:51:42.894-05:00To Mario Mastromatteo
You make some very good po...To Mario Mastromatteo <br /><br />You make some very good points. One thought i had was the children will side with the bullying parent for many reasons. perhaps they have lacked the love of that parent and want it so much. I think they also know that the target parent will always love them.Alienated momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16439933704255717566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31497830.post-16767905010139028912010-09-26T18:47:48.674-05:002010-09-26T18:47:48.674-05:00To www.alienatedparents.org
I must say I just loo...To www.alienatedparents.org<br /><br />I must say I just looked at your sight, although briefly. You have some wonderful references for books. I suggest that any target parent read these books. Some of the reading is difficult to say the least, when one is first experiencing parental alienation. The alienating parent embellishes every personality trait, makes up stories and the target parents do not stand a chance . <br /><br />Besides believing that alienating parents suffer from a personality disorder, I also think they are so insecure in their ability to receive love from their children. They must make them so dependent upon them, by convincing their children that they are the only ones that really love them. <br /><br />I have noticed that the alienating parent does take that "shred of truth" or so called evidence and uses it to vilify the target parent. Like you said, cooking could be something one parent did not do and it was fine during the marriage, but when custody becomes an issue, the lack of cooking becomes a major issue. Having a drink on a weekend, or after work was accepted and never complained about during the marriage, but becomes a major issue during the custody issue. These two issues and more can become very blown out of proportion during a custody issue, with the children even stating they have problems with it. What the courts fail to recognize is when a child complains of these issues and their maturity level does not warrant this. This is called parroting the alienating parent.Alienated momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16439933704255717566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31497830.post-21213829701789420842010-09-26T18:21:43.038-05:002010-09-26T18:21:43.038-05:00Some things must be understood to be seen. People ...Some things must be understood to be seen. People are hard pressed to believe that a parent would do such baffling things to a child. From what I have learned Hostile-Aggressive Parenting (HAP), which leads to parental alienation is defined as: A general pattern of behaviour, manipulation, action or decision-making of a person (usually a parent or guardian) that either directly or indirectly; 1) creates undue difficulties or interferes in the relationship between a child and another person (usually a parent or guardian) involved with the parenting and/or rearing of the child and/or, 2) promotes or maintains an unwarranted unfairness or inequality in the parenting arrangements between a child’s parents and/or guardians and/or, 3) promotes ongoing and unnecessary conflict between parents and/or guardians which adversely affects the parenting, well-being and rearing of a child. <br /><br /><br />In severe cases children appear to side with the hostile aggressive parent, then they grow, become adults and come to understand. Sadly these stories are not uncommon and the similarities world wide. Though, they are in-fact just that, stories, To the children, they are memories of growing up.<br /> <br /><br />---- This explains why hostile-aggressive behaviour is often observed in those having sole custody of their child. Angry and vindictive sole custodial parents are often able to bring a reign of terror and revenge on to a non-custodial parent and their family, in an effort to get them out of the child’s life or at the very least to severely damage their child’s relationship with the other parent and other parent’s family. Hostile Aggressive Parenting does lead to the early stages of PAS. This note Is taken from F.A.C.T. ( Fathers are capable too ). <br /><br />Mario MastromatteoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31497830.post-29700749651826393762010-09-26T16:34:07.930-05:002010-09-26T16:34:07.930-05:00Thank you for sharing this story. You made excell...Thank you for sharing this story. You made excellent points regarding "shreds of truth." During a marriage the spouse that did not like to cook was acceptable. Every one did just fine with order in pizza. During a long standing case of Parental Alienation though, personality quirks and interests are unforgivable. I could name many, many more. Many that alienated parents will clearly understand. <br /><br />Sincerely,<br /> <br />www.alienatedparents.orgAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com