You may be an alienator if....

You may be an alienating parent if.....

You refuse to allow the other parent access to school records.

You refuse to allow the other parent to have copies of school pictures.

You refuse to tell the other parent about school plays, sports or clubs that the child has a program in, knowing the other parent would like to attend.

You refuse to tell the other parent about health/medical concerns of the child.

You call others several times when the child is injured and several hours later call the other parent if the child is injured only because it would be obvious that the child has been injured.

You present yourself and new spouse as the natural parents or the only parents the child has.

You refuse to follow court orders pertaining to visitation.

You refuse to allow visitation with the non residential parent.

You have plans for the child when it is visitation time with the non residential parent so the child feels torn.

You ask the child to spy on your ex spouse.

You question everything that the child did when it was parenting time with the non residential parent in hopes that you can use this against the other parent.

You twist and turn natural anger that a child may have and encourage the child to have more anger towards the non residential parent.

You talk badly about the non residential parent so the child can hear.

You encourage others to support your idea that the non residential parent is "bad" and have them talk poorly to the child about the other parent as well.

You call, email, fax or text message the child several times during a weekend visitation with the non residential parent.

You belittle everything the non residential parent does so the child can hear it.

You bring food to the other parents home so the child can eat, when there is no financial obligation to do so or reason to do so.

You fabricate stories of abuse; physical, emotional or sexual.

You take the child to several doctors to be examined and then tell your story that the other parent abuses them and then get angry when the doctors will not call in social services.

You email teachers telling them the other parent abuses the child.

You tell the child about court dates and expect the child to attend and to lie on your behalf.

You do not punish the child if the child lies, especially if it is about the non residential parent.

You ask the child to gather up their belongings left at the non residential parents home and to bring them back.

You refuse to bring the child with the new shoes on or new outfit on because you bought the new shoes or outfit.

You......



Of course there is "always" a reason for this behavior in the mind of the alienator.

Whomever thinks that parental alienation is junk science or does not exist, has obviously never had to experience this. If we can accept that propaganda and indoctrination works on adults, how can one say that a child cannot be brainwashed?

Parental Alienation is child abuse. Stop the abuse.